Relationsheep

I'm back and it's been few weeks from now since my last post.

I just thought about something.

RELATIONSHIP.

What's with it. They'd ask me why don't i have a partner and it will always end up me answering  "because i really haven't thought about it yet.." Probably at sometime, i would. But right now, I don't think i'm ready for me to have one. I always thought that it would be better if a relationship will come out naturally, rather than having one due to peer pressure then suffer the consequences, when you always know that you had the option not to feel those regrets.

And that's where the words commitment and time comes in. Commitment and Time are plain words, but would mean so much to a person.

Who would even want to break promises to a person whom you've committed to?
Who would even want to hurt someone?
Who would even want to waste that person's time and feelings?

Probably none right? or your just a plain asshole yourself, if you do. Cos as what i see, for some it's like just a trophy or a game, who ever had the most is cool, winner or whatsoever that they can make them feel superior. Well i don't think so. I think they should even be more cautious, and that should even make them more of a better person and learn from it, so you'd know if there's something wrong with you or your partner. Rather than committing the same mistakes over and over, like choosing over Quantity rather than Quality, Being Practical and Falling head over heels. I know sometimes people will tell you to be practical but only that certain person can decide for itself, not anyone and will always be a case by case basis.

Taking Risk is also a factor on having a relationship. Something that i think which really holds me back. Yeah, I guess everyone would say it's alright and all those cliches but in the end it's you who's gonna be at that position right? You just can't force a person to be on a relationship, unless it really is, in which case you can't even say no due to pity, overpowering force(if you know what i mean), or you just did something stupid, that time can't erase and leads you to having that relationship, well then i feel sorry for you. I've heard a lot of stories from people about their love relationships, good and bad, and even if i even haven't had that experience, you would even try to learn from those kind of things or scenarios to avoid it from happening, a little bit of everything will help you out through the day. I know you can't ensure in your relationship that there can't be misunderstandings but i think only time and god can tell when it'll happen. I have always had that mindset that I've lived for 22 years without a relationship, i wouldn't mind waiting for a bit. Because i definitely know that going through it is not a joke. Also it's very hard when you feel are contented on what you have right now. So I Salute to those people who are in their respected relationship, making it work and happy..

As for me.. Right now, I'm happy and contented. So I'll just be waiting and i'm just going to take my time. :)