Some people, when they see that you're alone, their automatic question is if there's anything wrong. Yeah i think there is something wrong, it's about how people judge people who are alone and giving off a negative vibe or somewhat a bad connotation, which is not all the time.
I don't know but sometimes, there are things that only happens when you get to go out alone. Some People say that watching movie alone is a bit lonely.. Well i think there are big differences between being alone and being lonely. Cos you can also be lonely even when you're with your friends, especially when you can't relate to what they are talking about and there are tons of other things that a person can feel lonesome even with a company. While being alone doesn't necessarily have to be a time where you need to feel lonely and be depressed. I can attest to that, i swear. There are also things that's good having some time with yourself. You Got to experience some things in a new perspective, like malling or probably just dining.
Some people are scared to go off alone, cos probably they don't feel at ease. Probably it's me or i'm just used to it.. and i don't really mind having some companions but i really make sure that i got to have some time with myself, think about things thoroughly. You got to go to places you wanted to, without asking permission if they want to accompany you.. or let's make it easy.. Compromising things on what you want to do opposed to what your friends wants to do.. which sometimes you'll find it opposite to what you really planned. But let's face it not everything doesn't go according to what we planned. That's why, when your alone, You can always do an impromptu itenerary for the day without anyone getting annoyed by the changes since its your own schedule.
You got to appreciate yourself more and boost your self-esteem by doing things your way and see if it works fine to what your mind contradicts. Cos i think a people who got to go alone is brave enough, because not everyone can do it.
To sum it up, it gives you enough freedom to do anything you want. Every people always had that prerogative to do it. Sometimes you just have to do it without being questioned or asked. Because we all have our brains. So Being Lonely or Alone is a matter of choice and thinking.
I think everyone should try of what i so-called "Me-Time" (Self-Explanatory). Of course I'm not pushing you to do so, but it will be better when everything you do comes from a free-will. So at the end, no regrets and Guilt-Free.
Don't think that i don't like hanging out with my friends or other people, as a matter of fact i love going out with them and all that laughs, but there are just things that you can do on your own. Well sometimes doing things out of you comfort zone is worth a try right? Anyway you only live once, so enjoy the ride and let it flow.
Enjoy Life and Peace Out ^^V.
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